31 Days of Kiss Ideas

31 Days of Kiss Ideas

Kissing is one gesture that never gets old. It is difficult to resist the urge to kiss your partner when feelings of affection wash over you. Kissing can certainly be classified as one of our most base desires. However, as great as kissing is, sometimes you may feel like you want to try something different or just expand your kissing repertoire.

Luckily, we’ve got some great ideas to help keep you both weak in the knees. To help us out, fellow RW readers shared some of their favorite kissing techniques. Below, you’ll find 31 of our favorites – just enough for an entire month of new kisses!


Sharing a kiss with someone you love is pretty great, however, it never hurts to try something a little new! When you want to spice things up a bit, give one of these new kiss ideas a try.

Lip Licking
Slowly but softly run the tip of your tongue along your lover’s lips almost like you are lightly licking them. It catches most men off guard, but I’ve got nothing but rave reviews.
-Submitted by Amber

Neck Kiss
Nibble the ear, kiss the earlobe. Trace the neck and jawbone. Tease with your lips. Pull away. Lightly kiss the mouth. Then press harder. Kiss more passionately. Then let your tongue touch theirs… You can make your own way from there.
-Submitted by Anonymous

Teaser Kiss
Starting on the forehead, a sweet short kiss on lips, then move up the arms up to her hand, kiss her hand, then come back up her arm, to her face and then lightly kiss her lips till she wants a passionate kiss.
-Submitted by Ivan

Lip Saver
Gently kiss your lover’s top OR bottom lip and then lick it before taking in the entire lip.
-Submitted by Anonymous

Strawberry Kiss
Place a strawberry in your mouth and go to kiss your unknowing partner. Crush the strawberry in your mouth and feed part of it to your partner while you kiss.
-Submitted by Anonymous

Gentle Kiss
Rub your finger across their lips and look up at them and tell them that you love them. Then go into a little lips and if you want to show them how passionate you can get go to using your tongue.
-Submitted by Shannon

Baby Kisses
I like to give “baby kisses”, which are just little, light kisses. I give my boyfriend baby kisses on the freckles on his face. We both think it’s really cute.
-Submitted by Erin

Sensual Kiss
Start by hugging your love really gentle, then look in their eyes and whisper you want to kiss them. Press your lips gently with theirs, but do not actually make the kissing sensation, caress your lips with theirs, move your lips in a circular motion onto their lips and when they least expect it, give him or her a sweet but honest kiss. This kiss would really put them in the mood for romance!!
-Submitted by Sarah

Eye Kiss
Hold your partner’s head with both hands and slowly move their head in the direction you wish your kiss to go… then slowly kiss up towards your partner’s eyes and give them a tender kiss on top of their closed eyes.
-Submitted by Breck Pribyl

Cheek Kiss
Gently brush your cheek against your partner’s cheek. Then slowly brush your partner’s lips with your tongue a few times teasing them. Then kiss your partner passionately.
-Submitted by dawn

3 Kisses In One
First, start out with butterfly kisses (the ones where you brush your eyelashes next to each other). Then, move down to Eskimo kisses (rubbing your noses). Finally, do a real kiss. Touch your lips to their lips, gently at first like butterfly kisses or Eskimo ones, but then get more passionate!
-Submitted by Anonymous

Outline Kiss
You have your partner close his mouth so his lips are naturally together. Then, you outline his lips with your tongue before you begin the kiss.
-Submitted by Anonymous

Machine Gun Kiss
As quickly as possible, kiss your love as many times as you can in row. Preferably in different spots on their face.
-Submitted by Marie

Neck Kiss
Surprise your love by going behind them and moving their hair out of the way. Then once their neck is exposed, passionately kiss it and softly blow on the nape.
-Submitted by Mark

Feather Kisses
When your love is sleeping or laying on the sofa. Unexpectedly lean over them and plant the lightest kisses possible over their entire forehead and face. When you are done walk away and resume what you were doing.
-submitted by Jenn

Open Eye Kiss
I know this may sound a bit simple but, I think many people forget to do this every so often. Next time you’re kissing your significant other, open your eyes and look at each other. Just seeing the emotion and love in their eyes is enough to make anyone weak at the knees!
-Submitted by Tom B.

Ice Kiss
For fun or for a sensual moment, put a piece of ice in your mouth without your partner knowing. Then, go behind them and kiss them on the neck and let the ice softly touch their skin while you’re kissing them.
-Submitted by Devin

31 Days of Kiss Ideas


Learning a new kiss if fun, but it can be even more fun when you add a little extra something to it. These kiss ideas involve going the extra mile and making your kiss a true romantic gesture. When you’re ready to do something with a little more flair, give one of these kiss ideas a try!

Special Kisses
When my boyfriend is upset or things are getting too serious. When we’re kissing one of us will go “SPECIAL KISSES” which are a little odd but they make us laugh. Both partners open and close their mouths really quick – almost like when you’re trying to get a toddler to eat and you pretend you’re eating. Well we both do that and get really close so our lips are just barely touching. It’s not so much romantic but they cheer us up more than any other kiss because they are our “Special Kisses.”
-submitted by Lorie Ann

Lip Gloss Kiss
What’s the best kiss of all? The flavored kind! Put on your favorite flavored lip gloss (ladies) and kiss your guy on the lips. (No tongue!) Then you both lick your lips, and repeat. Be sure the lip gloss tastes as good as it smells, or it won’t work! For fun, get a few different flavors and have your partner try to guess which one you are wearing.
-Submitted by Sarah Kelly

Lead Up Kiss
Do not kiss your love all day until the “big” kiss. Throughout the day leave Hershey’s kisses in romantic places like on top of your love’s pillow, or on their plate, next to their coffee cup… anywhere they will know it’s for them. Later in the day start leaving notes with kissing poems or the quotes on it instead of the Hershey’s kisses. After that leave a love letter describing how you’d like to kiss them and how you enjoy it. Once you feel they’ve had enough teasing, spend 20 minutes or so rewarding them with wonderful, passionate kisses!
-Submitted by Jenn

Post-It Kiss
Make a post-it note trail that leads to your lips. On each note leave a lipstick kiss and an arrow or clue to find the next note. Place the last note over your lips with the words, “Lift for a kiss.” on it.
-Submitted by Trudy

Red Light Kiss
Here is something you can do to make car trips more enjoyable and interactive. When in the car with your love, every time you are stopped at a red light waiting for it to turn green, you both lean over to kiss each other.
-Submitted by Breck Pribyl

The Lost Kiss
Look around your partner’s room or house looking under things and appearing like you’re searching for something. When asked what you’re looking for, say “Well, I’ve been looking all day for a kiss but I can’t find it anywhere. Oh wait, I found it.” Then give your partner a kiss. Then, if you want to make it more interesting, say “No, that wasn’t it. It was bigger and a little more tilted.” Then give your partner a bigger, longer kiss.
-Submitted by The Shark Man

Password Kiss
Make an agreement that every time you see each other today you have to give a password – a little, delicate kiss on the lips.
-Submitted by Cyber Sue

Drive-by Kissing
When your partner is totally not expecting it walk by them, and plant a hearty kiss right on their lips. Then tell them they were a victim of a drive-by kissing!!
-Submitted by Breck

Computer Kisses
For fun, record yourself making a variety of kisses on your computer’s sound recorder. Then either e-mail them to your love or leave a note somewhere with instructions to press play on the computer.
-Submitted by Killey

Ten Second Kiss
While my husband and I were living together during college, when one of us either got home from work or class, we would always take time to give each other a ten second kiss. No distractions, only each other! This was a way we could get the day out of our heads and into each other – of course, it usually led to other things too!
-Submitted by Anonymous


Kissing isn’t always about the technique, sometimes it’s the moment that makes it special or memorable. In relationships, communication is everything, These kiss ideas can help you communicate exactly how you’re feeling when you and your partner need it most.

Afterglow Kiss
The perfect kiss is after lovemaking… when your love takes your face in his hands, softly kisses between your eyes, on the tip of your nose, and a long kiss on the lips… melts any heart.
-Submitted by Kim

Make Up Kisses
At the end of a hard day sit down with your partner and ask them how his/her day went. Silently keep track of all the misfortunes or bad things that happened during the day, when he/she is finished give them a kiss for each one. When asked what you’re doing say you are making up for all those problems.
Submitted by Anon.

Comforting Kiss
Although passionate, make- your- heart- beat- so- fast- you- think- it’s- going- to- explode- take- my- breath- away kisses are wonderful, sometimes a soft, heartfelt kiss on the cheek when the one you love (even works for a friend) is upset can be just what they need. It shows you care, simply, without words.
-Submitted by Sherri

Goodbye Kiss
A goodbye kiss is one of those kisses that you don’t want to ever end. You just keep your lips pressed together and hope that the dream doesn’t end with a wake up call of reality. My boyfriend just left for college eight hours away for the second year in a row and this goodbye kiss was one of the bests!! A kiss is so special when you know that you won’t get to feel your loved one’s lips for a long time.
-Submitted by Torey

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